🚀 2 Tips to Overcome Failure


Hi Reader,

If you’re learning, growing, and stretching your comfort zone, at some point, you’re going to fail or make a mistake.

Think back to the first time you rode a bike as a kid or learned to ski or tried some other activity.

You probably fell down a bunch of times before getting the hang of it.

That’s just part of the learning process — we learn from every attempt, even the ones that fail.

You might tell your kids the same thing — the problem though is that as adults we forget this stuff still applies to us.

So, here are two tips to help you overcome failure when (not if) it happens:

Tip 01: Be Kind to Yourself

Remember that "I failed" and "I am a failure" are two very different thoughts.

One is objective, the other subjective. And, more than likely, you are your harshest critic.

Tip 02: Put Failure in Context

Did you fail on the road to something big and bold you've been working toward?

No problem, it's just a clue that you're not done yet. Good thing you're tough.

There's always more game left to play.

Take a moment to pause & reflect.

  • How kind are you to yourself when failure happens?

Actions, experiments, & things to try next.

Think about a past failure or mistake. What did you learn from the experience? What skills or practices did you gain from that pain? Journal for a few minutes about the value you extracted from it.

Until next time,

Michael

Michael Schefman | 321 Liftoff

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Michel Schefman, 321 Liftoff

Starting a business is exciting and ambiguous – and that’s the fun. It’s a time of possibility, experimentation, imagination, and showing the world what you can do. But, it can also feel slow, frustrating, and full of traps and distractions, leaving potential entrepreneurs to question their self-worth and to wonder why they started in the first place. As a small business coach, I’ll help you cultivate an entrepreneur’s mindset, so you can start and grow your businesses with confidence and step boldly into the role of business owner. Subscribe to get access to weekly tips, small business interviews, and more.

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